Kogi Born social Media Influencer, Odaudu Joel Minister also known as “OJM” is set to settle down with love of his life, Ójóchénémi Anaja.
Mr Joel who apologised to family, friends and his followers for his erroneous choice in spousal relations in the past without seeking for God’s direction described his found love, Ójóchénémi as God fearing, meek, soft hearted, tactful, well cultured, brilliant, inventive, enterprising and a lady of substance with an excellent family upbringing.
While advising single men and ladies to seek God direction in deciding who should be an ideal life – partner, Mr Joel says, “Any marriage that doesn’t have God as the foundation will never be enjoyed and is bound to crash. Marriage is a God ordained institution and one must seek God’s face and approval before embarking on the project”.
OJM who revealed that his love, Ójóchénémi showed up as at the time he had nothing has this to say in his own words: “She showed up shortly after I was released from detention by security agents, a period I was downcast and battling depression. I had no joy. I had no job. I had no money. I had no roof over my head. Consequently, I had nothing that would attract a woman to me.
Nevertheless, she embraced me. She held me in the highest esteem. She saw and had a firm belief that my setback was only temporary. On account of that, she encouraged me to fast and pray while she fasted and prayed along.
Most importantly, she’s fervently devotional. Her prayer life had a domino effect on my spiritual life. She’s meek, soft hearted, so tactful, cultured, brilliant and inventive, a lady so discreet and well mannered, a young woman so well adjusted with a fantastic parental upbringing. By and large, just like I alluded above, she has the FEAR OF GOD.
Moreover, she’s enterprising. I am not a business person. I have no business acumen. My tact is limited to media and politics where I make the dough. My kind of person do not need a “chop chop” and materialistic woman in my life.
All I need is one who can help gather and develop what I have. I go out there and struggle to make the money.
All I need is a kind of woman who would gather my little and convert it to plenty — a woman with profound business dexterity who can convert 1 naira to 2 naira, 10 naira to 20 naira, and a million to 2 or 3 million via a legit and established business.
I take holistic responsibility for the errors of my past with respect to my spousal relations. It’s all my fault — a human error.
I committed fatal errors in my matrimonial life all because I never sought the face of God and allowed him to lead me on my nuptial voyages. I’ve always believed in my human knowledge and understanding which has failed me colossally. I never knew that all I needed to start a conjugal project is the knowledge and wisdom of God.
Any marriage that doesn’t have God as the foundation will never be enjoyed and is bound to crash. Marriage is a God ordained institution and one must seek God’s face and approval before embarking on the project.
It was all my error. I can’t blame but appreciate God in all for the gift of life, good health, and the opportunity to correct my errors and move on.
To those coming behind, I wouldn’t want you to make the mistakes I have made so far. Consequently, I have this to say:
First, you should study the nature, character and history of your woman. Make sure she’s one who is Independent minded and can take decisions on anything that pertains to her destiny.
Moreover, look out for the nature and character of the company she keeps. Look out for those she call her friends and know who they are. This is very important. My female friends should do same on their men.
Second, take out time to study the family she comes from with much emphasis who the mother is. Scan very well the matrimonial pattern of that family. This is very important. My female friends should do same on their men.
Third, if you’re a man who doesn’t have business acumen like me, please don’t marry a materialistic and “chop chop” woman o. Carefully choose a lady who can help you gather, increase and develop your little earnings.
Fourth, if you’re a “strong” and somewhat temperamental man like me, please carefully search for an unassuming and meek lady who would help pour cold water on your “hot head”, not one who would use petrol and lighter on your head when you nag. Abeg bros, help yourself saboda Allah. They say “iron sharpeneth iron”, but that is not holistically true in marriage.
I am only privileged and have the opportunity to write this and offer you my two kobo on the subject matter because I am a lucky man.
I am happy, strong, psychologically stable, vivacious, and emotionally inflated because I am a lucky man!”.
